V-Day
I'm going to write in an attractive red color for V-Day. ISN'T THAT GRAND?In all seriousness, I am a public hater of Valentine's Day. I don't see why we should celebrate a day that overprices chocolate and greeting cards and makes singles feel crappy about themselves.
But that's not what this post is about.
This is about girls. Or at least, the mentality of girls as seen and observed by a man. A male, being myself, who has some interest and experience in the human psyche, and understands it quite a bit as well.
But I am completely flabbergasted by some of the things that girls seem to think.
Here's the thing. Girls always play the victim when it comes to relationships. Guys are always the one that must stay faithful, must never stare at another girl, always pick them up for the dates, always pay for their food and ticket. If you think about it, the girls are kind of holding the leash. At least in all stereotypical relationships. Watch any romantic comedy, and this is the kind of relationship you'll find.
All girls are "scared about the guy only wanting to get in their pants" and bla bla crap crap. Truth is, how many GIRLS are just in it for sex as well? There are just as many sluts as there are man whores. How many girls lust after other men once they're in a relationship? Why is the guy always in the wrong?
Girls are always the ones that say "don't lead me on" or "you played with my emotions" or something like that. Why is the guy not allowed to say that?
Some guys are sensitive. Guys have feelings too. WE'RE HUMAN, JUST LIKE GIRLS. Just because we have a Y chromosome, doesn't make us immune to being hurt. When I start to express my feelings openly, and you in turn reciprocate those advances, and flirt and text and do whatever, and have nothing driving that passion, it hurts. A lot.
I don't care if you're scared to say it. Saying "I'm not interested" is a HECK of a lot easier, for BOTH of us, than giving me mixed signals and leading me on. And a lot less painful. Maybe if you had just told me to shove it 4 months ago, instead of talking to me MORE, I wouldn't have a hole in my heart right now.
So thanks for nothing.
Screw V-Day.
posted by Andyroo @ 9:55 PM
1 Comments:
A wise friend of mine once said: "Girls are kind of like Pokemon, you either set bait for them or throw rocks."
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